Freedom
Are you holding onto offense, replaying past hurts, or nurturing bitterness like a pet? Offense is a trap—a baited hook designed to keep us stuck. Science confirms that forgiveness improves mental and physical health, but Jesus takes it further—He shows us it’s the path to true freedom. In John 5, a man sat by the pool of Bethesda for 38 years, waiting for a miracle. When Jesus shows up, He doesn’t offer excuses—He offers healing. Are you ready to let go and step into freedom? Or will you stay stuck, waiting for change? Join us as we explore the power of forgiveness.
Matthew 18:7
Discussion topics
- Read Matthew 18:7 – Jesus says that offenses (skandalon) will come, but woe to the one through whom they come. How does understanding offense as a “trap” change the way you think about it? Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of offense or bitterness? What was the situation, and how did it affect your life?
- In John 5, Jesus asks the man at the pool of Bethesda, “Do you want to get well?” Why do you think Jesus asked this question instead of just healing him immediately?
- How do we recognize when offense is starting to take root in our hearts? What are practical steps we can take to release it before it turns into bitterness?
- Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing or forgetting, but it does mean releasing someone from the debt they owe us. Who in your life do you need to forgive so that you can walk in freedom?
- Challenge each group member to identify one offense or wound they are holding onto and to pray for God’s help to release it this week. Encourage them to take one small action—whether it’s praying for that person, writing a letter (even if they don’t send it), or simply speaking a blessing over the situation.
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